"...the man who thinks with malice of his enemies has not God's love within him, and does not know God. If you will pray for your enemies, peace will come to you; but when you can love your enemies--know that a great measure of the grace of God dwells in you." - St. Silouan.
Upon those who love us, and those who hate us, Lord have mercy.
I may have more to say about this later. Or I may not.